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09/28/2013

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Blood Dragon

So, the question, then, is: Is this a backslide, a slip, a weak moment? Is the falling back into old habits? Is this not trying at all?

Boiling down to, does she want to put effort into this, or not? If not, she's wasting your time. I don't say that because I want to see you split up - you guys are (or can be, anyway) good together.

She needs to figure out what she wants. And what she's willing to do to get and/or keep it.

And then she needs to tell you.

But since most of her pathology is about lying to herself, it's going to be hard to be honest with you...

ytrozs

Feels like old habits. And not wanting to put in the effort.

The worst part right now is, I don't believe anything she tells me. I told her basically what I wrote here, and she had some response but I didn't even bother to listen. It was excuses, not explanations. I just don't know what to do.

ytrozs

I take that back. The worst part is, I'm starting to feel like I'm wasting my time.

I haven't the slightest idea how to deal with that.

I spent a good chunk of my lesson today just punching bag.

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